Everyday Giving Blog

What Makes A Great Nonprofit Leader

Christopher Scott, from the Nonprofit Leadership, Innovation, and Change blog, is writing an ebook for young nonprofit leaders. He is interested in receiving contributions. The following is what I believe are some of the key qualities or traits that are required from a great nonprofit leader:

Love
Education
Altruistic
Dreams
Effective
Risks

A great nonprofit leader demonstrates LOVE for others

Demonstrating respect for everyone you work with is an important part of building trust. This includes your peers, superiors, subordinates, volunteers and other people you come in contact with outside your organization. Practice the Golden Rule at all times.

A great nonprofit leader values EDUCATION

Learning does not end on your school graduation day. It is an ongoing process. Look for opportunities to learn on the job. Attend additional classes. Read books. Search out mentors. Teaching also enhances the education experience. Become a mentor to someone else. Pass along what you have learned and you will both benefit from the education.

A great nonprofit leader is ALTRUISTIC

A great leader understands it is important to help others. This applies to those at work as well as those outside. Do something at work for someone without any expectation of getting anything in return. Donate your time and money to causes that are important to you. The feeling you receive from your unselfish acts will carry over into other areas of your life.

A great nonprofit leader has big DREAMS

Making a big difference starts with a big vision. This vision should include your life and the future of your organization. Be creative and don't limit yourself to what seems possible today. Changing the world doesn't start by mediocre thoughts. It requires us to think big and to inspire others to help make the vision a reality.

A great nonprofit leader is EFFECTIVE

A leader can motivate others by being effective in moving toward the vision. To be effective, goals need to be established and tasks need to be prioritized. There is always too much to do in the available time. Build a habit of completing the most important, least desirable tasks first. You will be amazed at the progress being made to forward your mission.

A great nonprofit leader takes RISKS

If you want to make a big impact as a leader, you are going to have to be willing to take some risks. I am not referring to gambling. The risks should be comparable to the expected payoff. Leaders are willing to make mistakes in order to take action and make progress. It is uncomfortable, but also very rewarding.

These are some of the traits I believe a great leader needs. It is not intended to be an exhaustive list. What additional traits can you think of?

And the Winners Of The Twenty Five Days To Make A Difference Project Are...

Laura announced the winners of the Twenty Five Days to Make a Difference project. You can read about all of the winners here.

It was fun and inspiring to read about Laura's acts of kindness each day. I was amazed at the response she received.

Initially, Laura decided to honor her Grandfather during the holiday season by doing an act of kindness every day for 25 days. To encourage other kids to do the same, Laura decided to write about her experiences online and offer up her $25.00 allowance to the favorite charity of the child who made the biggest difference during the project.

What was the response?

Laura's blog had more than 17,000 hits during the 25 days. Additional contests were created to include adults and school classrooms. Charities are receiving $825.00 due to others pledging matching funds. Sixty people and six classrooms participated in the project with Laura.

We will never know the full impact of Laura's kindness and her project.  What we do know is that Laura made a huge difference during this Christmas season that will have a lasting impact on people's lives.

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Christmas Acts of Kindness

"Wherever there is a human being, there is a chance for a kindness." -Seneca

Put a smile on someone's face at Christmas time by performing an act of kindness. Many acts of kindness do not cost anything, but the benefits gained can be huge.

What are some acts of kindness to consider accomplishing during the Christmas season? Here are a few:

1. Allow another driver to park in the only available space at a busy shopping center
2. Call a relative or friend who you haven't talked with in a long time
3. Shovel snow from your neighbor's driveway and sidewalk
4. Send cards to service people and students who are away from home for the Christmas holiday
5. Volunteer your time to help a local homeless shelter or food pantry
6. Give blood
7. Baby-sit to allow friends or family members to spend some time Christmas shopping (or for any other purpose)
8. Donate new and used toys and clothing to charities that can put them in the arms of those who need them most
9. Contribute money to your favorite charity
10. Talk, listen and even sing Christmas carols with nursing home residents

You can perform one or more of these acts of kindness or you can make up your own list. Demonstrate to others that they are special and loved.

The original Christmas story is about the ultimate gift given for the purpose of changing the world. Regardless of your religious beliefs, consider spending time this holiday season finding ways to help others. Perform an act of kindness today.

NASA Giveaway Available For One Kindhearted Classroom

Courtesy NASA/JPL-Caltech

10-year old Laura's Twenty Five Days to Make a Difference project is really going strong! Her website has already received well over 6,000 hits in only 6 days.

Her latest challenge is encouraging teachers and students to make a difference. There is a terrific prize available to the classroom that makes the most difference using technology between now and Christmas.

The prize was donated by Susan at Toddler Planet. What is the prize?

• Donation to the charity of their choosing
• 4 foot x 3 foot photo printout of the Martian landscape taken by the Mars rovers
• Packet of solar system lithographs
• Special video conference call (or audio, if the school doesn’t have a webcam) with two NASA scientists

Run to http://twentyfivedays.wordpress.com/nasa-give-away-for-classrooms and learn how to enter the challenge.

Spread the news to any students and teachers you know.

Badge Contest In Full Swing for the Twenty Five Days to Make a Difference Project

Laura's Twenty Five Days to Make a Difference project is going strong. She has already shoveled snow for her neighbors and recycled cans to raise funds for a charity.

In less than two days, Laura's website has already received over 1,500 hits (I just checked). There are many online marketers who would be jealous of that statistic!

This immediate, world-wide attention has caught Laura and her family off guard. Supporters are asking them to provide a badge that can be put on blogs and websites to further spread the word. What was the response?

A Twenty Five Days Badge Contest!

The prize is $25 donated to the charity of your choice. The deadline is Wednesday, December 7th.

Laura and her family have given you the motivation. Now all that is left is for you to get creative and design some great badges to submit.

Good Luck!

One Child - 25 Acts of Kindness - Making A Difference

Laura is a girl who is making a difference. Her personal project Twenty Five Days to Make a Difference is making a difference in people's lives.

For 25 days, Laura is going to work hard to make the world a better place. She started on December 1st and will complete her project on December 25th (Christmas Day). When she says "work hard" she means it. Her task on the first day was shoveling snow for her family and neighbors. You can follow her daily activities at http://twentyfivedays.wordpress.com.

Laura is also encouraging other kids to participate. She wants others to let her know when they perform acts of kindness during this period of time as well. She has provided a list of Ideas for making a difference on her project website at http://twentyfivedays.wordpress.com/ideas-for-making-a-difference. For the child who makes the most difference in December, Laura is going to donate $25.00 to the winner's favorite charity.

I can't think of a better Christmas present that she could give. I can't think of a better Christmas present that we could give. You and I need to follow Laura's example and find ways to show our love and help others every day.

Thank you Laura for being a terrific example and for demonstrating to the world what the holiday season is all about.

Note: I learned about Laura and her wonderful project from Dr.Mani.

A Day Of Hope For Families On Thanksgiving Day

The holiday season is a time for celebration. But for some struggling families, celebrating is the furthest thing from their minds.

A Day of Hope is a volunteer based not-for-profit organization that delivers baskets of food and turkeys to needy and hungry families for Thanksgiving in Northern California. They are giving families a reason to celebrate during a time that may be extremely difficult.

The organization is young and growing. They have already helped hundreds of families.

• 2005 - They delivered 48 baskets of food and turkeys to 48 families
• 2006 - They delivered 211 baskets of food and turkeys to 211 families
• 2007 - Their goal is to deliver 750 baskets of food and turkeys to 750 families

I asked my new friend Christopher Scott, President and founder of A Day of Hope, some questions. Here is what he had to say...

What is the biggest reason you continue to lead and support A Day of Hope?

"What motivates me to lead and support A Day of Hope, is because there are families that will go hungry if I don't lead A Day of Hope. I work hard to encourage, motivate, love, and lead the volunteers of A Day of Hope so that we can help those in need, and to train them to become nonprofit leaders as well.  I'm not going to be around forever, so I need to train, coach, and mentor others to take my place."

How can individuals local to you get involved? Can others not local support the effort?

"Individuals locally can donate food or turkeys, and deliver some baskets. You can go to www.squidoo.com/adayofhopemeetings for anyone who lives locally and would like to attend our meetings.

People who don't live locally can feed a family by making a $20 donation. We do food drives, so all we have to purchase is the turkey and a couple of other small things. So for $20 you can feed a needy and hungry family for Thanksgiving."

To make a safe and tax free donation, email Christopher Scott at christopher@adayofhope.org or call 209.304.4291 for more information.

Make A Difference Day

Make a Difference Day is a national day devoted to helping others. It is celebrated each year on the fourth Saturday of October.

Millions of people of all ages celebrate the occasion across the United States by volunteering to help in their communities. The 17th Make a Difference Day falls on Saturday, October 27, 2007.

Go to the Make a Difference Day website at http://www.MakeADifferenceDay.com to discover more about the celebration event and how to get involved.

Don't let this year's opportunity to join millions of
other volunteers pass you by.

How Many People Do You Influence?

We really have no idea how many people we influence. Our acts of kindness can inspire a chain reaction of others doing the same. There are also people observing and potentially mimicking our actions who we are unaware of. I was recently reminded of this.

I usually keep my car in the same parking garage during my visits to Washington, DC. I make it a point to be friendly with the parking attendants when I see them. One day I discovered that one of the attendants loved to read. When I heard this, I immediately went back to my car and gave him my inspirational and entertaining magazine called Going Bonkers. He was excited. A couple of weeks later I was paying my parking fee to one of the other attendants. He was telling me about a great magazine he was reading. It turned out to be the one I gave his co-worker.

How many people do you think had already read that magazine? How many do you think will read it in the future? We don’t have any idea.

This morning I received a phone call from one of the top Internet Marketing leaders. He started the conversation by saying “Hi Roger. I have been watching you for some time...” Each of us has many people observing our actions. They can be of any age and in the most unlikely locations. They are watching us and we are unknowingly influencing them.

How many people are watching us? We don’t have any idea.

The number of people we influence is much greater than we realize. Continue to help others and you will encourage others to do the same. You have the potential to be a world-changing role model.

Even Chronic Illness Didn't Stop Her

Kim is chronically ill. She has been suffering from diseases including lupus and osteoarthritis for several years. You wouldn't know this when you see her or talk to her. These illnesses are invisible to others.

Having an invisible chronic illness doesn't mean the effects don'.t exist. Kim is in constant pain. She is exhausted most of the time. When she goes out in public for a few hours, she has to recover in bed for a significant portion of several days. Once a successful store owner, now she has had to give up the business portion of her life.

Why am I telling you Kim's story?

If there are acceptable excuses for not giving back to others, Kim's would be high on the list. However, she isn't letting her illness stop her.

Kim understands the struggle a chronic illness can impose on a person and family. It impacts activities, finances, mental health, and relationships. She has read many books that have helped her tremendously. She knows these books are unreachable by many people dealing with chronic illness because they can't afford them.

Kim purchased large quantities of two books that helped her the most. She is giving these books to doctors who can give or loan the books out to patients who need them most.

Kim identified a need and then took action to help meet that need. Giving back to help others can be that simple.

If Kim can make a difference in people's lives, what are you capable of accomplishing? Look around you and identify needs. You won't have to look long or hard. Take action to help meet one or more of those needs. You will be glad you did.

Did I mention that Kim is my wonderful wife?

National Invisible Chronic Illness Awareness Week

I have described my life as a roller coaster ride many times. Why? My wife, Kim, suffers from chronic illnesses including lupus and osteoarthritis. One day she can be feeling great and the next day she can be in a significant amount of pain and not able to get out of bed.

It was interesting to discover that this year's theme of National Invisible Chronic Illness Awareness Week is "Living with invisible illness is a roller coaster. Help a friend hold on!" I guess my family isn't the only one that feels like they are riding the popular amusement park ride.

Many people live with a chronic illness. Nearly 1 in 2 people in the United States have a chronic condition and 96% of it is invisible. You probably know one or more people who are dealing with a chronic illness. However, you may not know they are struggling from a serious illness unless they tell you. That is why some call it invisible.

It is important that you check out the National Invisible Chronic Illness Awareness Week's web site at http://www.invisibleillness.com. You will learn many ways you can help someone who is chronically ill. The website contains articles, resources and will feature twenty online seminars during Sept 10-14, 2007. Guests include Maureen Pratt, author of Peace in the Storm: Meditations on Chronic Pain and Illness. Maureen Pratt is one of Kim and my favorite authors on this important topic.

Find more videos like this on Illness-Disability-Healthcare-Caregiver Ministry Network

Would You Like a Refill?

Already seated at one of my favorite Italian restaurants, I was ready to eat lunch. It was a hot day and I had put in quite a few miles on the road. I was even thirstier than I was hungry.  The server was friendly, attentive and prompt.

Every time my drink got down to the halfway point, my server would ask, "Would you like a refill?"

The first time I was asked this question, I had just begun to eat my salad. This was repeated a few more times as I completed the salad and enjoyed my entree. The best servers in restaurants can anticipate your needs and respond without asking these types of questions.

Why did he need to ask me that question? He was probably taught to ask the question. I believe he was genuinely trying to be helpful.  He asked the question and responded to my answer in a very polite way.

This experience got me to thinking about how we react to others in need. How many times have you known of someone who was experiencing a difficult time and you said the words "Just give me a call and let me know how I can help."

When you said those words you really meant them. You were trying to be as polite and helpful as you could be. However, most people that are in a difficult situation don't want to be a burden on others. There is a difference between this situation and the restaurant example above. In this situation the person will probably tell you he or she will call but then walk away with no intent to get back to you.

If you know someone who is in need, find ways to help him or her and take action. Do it in a way that respects their privacy and desires. Even if you can't do something to ease their hurt, there are several things you can do to encourage them and demonstrate someone loves them.

Get out your pen and write a note of encouragement. Invite them to your house for a meal or deliver them a meal. Share one of your favorite books with them. Pray for them.

Helping and encouraging someone does not have to take a significant amount of time or energy. Demonstrating your love is powerful. It can have a long-lasting effect on other's lives.

Next time you are talking to someone in need, don't just ask how you can help. Make sure you follow your words up with acts of love and kindness. There is someone who is depending on you, whether they tell you they are or not.

Rescuing Homeless And At Risk Youth To Make A Difference

Russell rescues youth. Russell Hartsaw has a burning passion for making a difference in the lives of homeless youth, at risk youth and their families. He experienced firsthand what it means to be homeless and abused. He also knows the potential dangers that lie ahead for kids who are homeless and at risk. But what can one person do?

Russell discovered an area in his city where homeless youth hid and supported each other in order to survive. He took food to them that he paid for and received from friends also wanting to help. Eventually, a few of these kids began to trust Russell. They were Gerald and nine of his friends, all between the ages of nine and fifteen years old.

When Russell received money for a gift from a friend, he chose to use it to take these ten kids out to a local restaurant for a meal. It turned out to be a tremendous experience. The manager at the restaurant matched the money so it provided meals for the group and allowed them to take food back to other kids who remained in seclusion.

Providing meals for this group of friends was only the beginning. Due to Russell's enthusiasm and initiative, area churches and members of the community tirelessly knocked on doors until they found homes for all ten kids!

Russell Hartsaw has now founded an organization to provide resources and support for homeless youth, at risk youth, their families and related organizations. The Invisible Youth Network is made up of volunteer members from every continent in the world. Go to http://www.orgsites.com/ca/youthoutreachinternational and learn more about the mission of the Invisible Youth Network and how you can get involved.

What can one person do? Russell has proved you can change lives!

© 2007 Roger B. Carr

Roger Carr is the founder and owner of Everyday Giving and board member of the Invisible Youth Network.

A Kid's Guide to Giving

I highly recommend the book "A Kid's Guide to Giving" written by Freddi Zeiler. It is a great resource to help you encourage your child to give back and make a difference. This book discusses:

• the value of giving
• how to give (not just donating money)
• how to do fundraising
• nonprofit organizations of interest to young people

This award-winning book is well written and easy to understand. It is written from a kid's point of view. The page layout and use of quotes from other young philanthropists makes it fun and easy to read. The hardcover format will even hold up better than a paperback as your child reads and studies it.

Although the book is ideal for kids, it can be a great resource for adults as well. I continue to refer to my copy from time to time.

Freddi Zeiler has written a winning book on giving that you need to include as a part of your library and your child's life.

Cheerful Givers in the Virtual World of Second Life

Have you spent any time in the virtual world called Second Life? It is amazing what you can do today with a computer and an Internet connection!

I recently spent some time experimenting with Second Life. One of the organizations I discovered during my virtual travels is Cheerful Givers. Check out the picture of me (Rog Cleanslate) looking over their Second Life location.

Cheerful Givers is a nonprofit organization dedicated to providing birthday gift bags to children that are living in poverty or without a home. It is a great concept. They discovered a critical need and they took action. They organized it so that anyone can participate in some way. Some of those ways include:

• Donating items
• Assembling gift bags
• Raising and/or donating funds

Check out the Cheerful Givers web site at http://www.cheerfulgivers.org.

They're currently planning a virtual walk in Second Life as a fundraising event. I plan on participating. You should also consider helping Cheerful Givers in some way as well. You'll be glad that you did.

Reasons to Give in December 2006

There are countless times that you might consider giving to someone. You don't have to look very hard to find one or more reasons every day. Be creative in finding reasons to do something for someone when they won't expect it. Pick one or more of these upcoming observances as reasons to help and surprise others with an act of kindness:

• Dec 1 - World AIDS Day - http://www.worldaidsday.org
• Dec 2 - Together We Can Change the World Day - http://www.togetherwecanchangetheworldday.com
• Dec 3 - International Day of Disabled Persons - http://www.un.org/esa/socdev/enable/disiddp.htm
• Dec 4 - National Cookie Day
• Dec 5 - International Volunteer Day - http://www.worldvolunteerweb.org/intl-volunteer-day.html
• Dec 16-Dec 23 - Hanukkah/Chanukah - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chanukah
• Dec 25 - Christmas - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Christmas_Day
• Dec 26-Jan 1 - Kwanzaa - http://www.officialkwanzaawebsite.org

Reasons to Give in November 2006

There are countless times that you might consider giving to someone. You don't have to look very hard to find one or more reasons every day. Be creative in finding reasons to do something for someone when they won't expect it. Pick one or more of these upcoming observances as reasons to help and surprise others with an act of kindness:

• Nov - National Alzheimer's Disease Month - http://www.alz.org
• Nov 4 - Together We Can Change The World Day - http://www.togetherwecanchangetheworldday.com
• Nov 11 - Veterans Day - http://www1.va.gov/opa/vetsday
• Nov 12-18 - National Hunger & Homeless Awareness Week - http://www.nationalhomeless.org/getinvolved/projects/awareness
• Nov 12 - Chicken Soup for the Soul Day - http://www.chickensoup.com
• Nov 13 - World Kindness Day - http://www.actsofkindness.org
• Nov 14 - World Diabetes Day - http://www.worlddiabetesday.org
• Nov 15 - National Philanthropy Day - http://www.nationalphilanthropyday.org
• Nov 18 - National Family Volunteer Day - http://www.pointsoflight.org/programs/seasons/NFVD
• Nov 18 - National Adoption Day - http://www.nationaladoptionday.org
• Nov 19-25 - National Family Week - http://www.nationalfamilyweek.org
• Nov 19-26 - National Bible Week - http://www.nationalbible.org/index-3.html
• Nov 21 - World Hello Day - http://www.worldhelloday.org
• Nov 23 - Thanksgiving Day - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thanksgiving

The Caring Institute Names Most Caring People in America for 2006

Seven adults and six youths were named the 2006 inductees to the Hall of Fame for Caring Americans by the Caring Institute. You will probably recognize some of the names. The accomplishments of those chosen will certainly inspire you.

If you don't believe kids can make a difference, think again. Some of the award winners are as young as age 14. Consider these:

• Daniel Kent, age 17, from Carmel, IN, formed Senior Connects -- now Net Literacy Corporation -- to bring senior citizens into the computer age. While teaching a computer class for adults, he realized that many seniors found it hard to attend his sessions. He recruited and trained friends to help him teach Internet classes, built a website, and raised over $110,000 for equipment. His efforts have put computer labs in 70 retirement facilities and helped 11,000 seniors get online.
• Brittany and Robbie Bergquist, ages 15 and 14, from Norwell, MA, founded Cell Phones for Soldiers to help U.S. troops stay in touch. They decided to support the war effort after hearing about the many soldiers who couldn't afford to call home. Their idea has inspired donations of cash, prepaid phone cards, and used cell phones that the kids recycle and sell to raise funds. So far, they've collected over $1 million, sent over 80,000 calling cards to troops in the Middle East, and established over 8,000 recycling sites.

Go to http://www.prweb.com/releases/2006/10/prweb447741.htm to discover the other 2006 inductees to the Hall of Fame for Caring Americans and to learn about the Caring Institute.

October is Family Portrait Month and Photographers are Joining Together to Support Operation Smile

The month of October is National Portrait Month. Photographers from across the United States have joined together with the Professional Photographers of America (PPA) Charities to make a difference in children's lives. They are conducting a fund-raising effort to support Operation Smile. Participating photographers have pledged to contribute a portion of each October family portrait sale to PPA Charities, which has chosen Operation Smile as its charitable partner. More than $15.000 was raised for Operation Smile during this event last year.

Operation Smile is a non-profit organization which treats children around the world who suffer from cleft lips, cleft palates and other facial deformities. Operation Smile has treated more than 100,000 children worldwide and has programs in 25 partner countries.

To learn more about National Portrait Month and the photography studios that are participating in this fund-raising effort, view the press release at  http://www.prweb.com/releases/2006/10/prweb450004.htm.

Martin Sabel Interview with Roger Carr

Martin Sabel interviewed me about why I started Everyday Giving, what it means to be a philanthropist, and some of the many ways a person or company can give to make a difference.

Go to http://www.EverydayGiving.com/martin_sabel.mp3 to listen to the interview.

Interview with Author of "What A Difference A Day Makes"

Last night I interviewed Kerri Cartelli. She is the author of What a Difference a Day Makes: A Survival Guide for Women. Go to http://www.everydaygivingradio.com/2006/10/interview_with_.html to listen to the full interview. I will be writing up a more extensive post for this blog regarding the interview, but I didn't want you to have to wait another minute to hear what she has to say.

The Holiday Season is Almost Here

I couldn't believe it. I was doing some shopping this past weekend and discovered that many of the stores are already putting Christmas items on their shelves! The traditional holiday season is just around the corner. Have you considered who you are going to give to this season? Have you considered what you are going to give?

Consider adding at least one new person to your gift giving list this year. Think about those that you know who have had a rough year or are in need of support. Think about those who have helped you in the past.

Giving can be a way of helping, encouraging and thanking. Make your holiday giving meaningful this year by planning ahead and doing something special for others.

Reasons to Give in October 2006

Be creative in finding reasons to do something for someone when they won't expect it. Pick one or more of these upcoming observances as reasons to help and surprise others with an act of kindness:

• Oct - Lupus Awareness Month - http://www.lupus.org/education/LAM_main.html
• Oct - National Breast Cancer Awareness Month - http://www.nbcam.org
• Oct 6 - World Smile Day - http://www.worldsmileday.com
• Oct 1 - International Day of Older Persons - http://www.un.org/esa/socdev/ageing/index.html
• Oct 2 - World Habitat Day - http://www.unhabitat.org/categories.asp?catid=490
• Oct 5 - World Teachers Day - http://www.ei-ie.org/worldteachersday
• Oct 9 - Columbus Day - http://memory.loc.gov/ammem/today/oct12.html
• Oct 10 - World Mental Health Day - http://www.wmhday.net
• Oct 15 - Sunday School Teacher Appreciation Day - http://mysundayschoolteacher.com
• Oct 15-21 - National Food Bank Week - http://www.secondharvest.org
• Oct 22-28 - Kids Care Week - http://www.kidscare.org
• Oct 22 - Mother-in-Law Day
• Oct 24 - United Nations Day - http://www.un.org/events/unday
• Oct 28 - Make a Difference Day - http://www.usaweekend.com/diffday
• Oct 31 - Halloween - http://www.BooksForTreats.org

Reasons to Give in September 2006

When do you get the most benefit from receiving a card from someone? Is it when you receive one for a major celebration or holiday? Or is it when you receive one that is totally unexpected?

For me, it's when I receive one that is unexpected.

Be creative in finding reasons to do something for someone when they won't expect it. Pick one or more of these upcoming observances as reasons to help and surprise others with an act of kindness:

• Sept 1-7 - International Enthusiasm Week
• Sept 2 - Together We Can Change The World Day - http://www.togetherwecanchangetheworldday.com
• Sept 4 - Labor Day - http://www.dol.gov/opa/aboutdol/laborday.htm
• Sept 4 - Newspaper Carrier Day
• Sept 8 - International Literacy Day - http://www.un.org/depts/dhl/literacy/
• Sept 10 - National Grandparents Day - http://www.grandparents-day.com/
• Sept 11 - One Day's Pay - http://ww.onedayspay.org
• Sept 16 - Wife Appreciation Day
• Sept 17 - International Day of Prayer and Action for Human Habitat - http://www.habitat.org/cr/day_of_prayer.aspx
• Sept 21 - International Day of Peace - http://www.internationaldayofpeace.org/
• Sept 21 - World Gratitude Day
• Sept 24 - National Good Neighbor Day - http://www.natgoodneighborday.org/

Discover How Baby Boomers Can Make an Impact

Baby boomers are an interesting group.  You are a baby boomer if you were born between the years of 1946 and 1964.  What is one of the things that makes this group so interesting?  Currently, the first baby boomers are at the traditional age of retirement.  The later baby boomers, which I am a part of, are at the traditional age of midlife. Both groups are evaluating their lives and considering what they will do in the future. Both want to lead a life that is full of meaning and purpose.

The new retirees are only leaving their first careers. They're certainly not retiring from life. This generation is living longer and has more vitality than ever before.  They're looking for a second career that is focused on what they want to do and enjoy.  They're looking for ways they can make a difference. Making additional income may or may not be necessary.  Many are looking for opportunities to volunteer either part time or full time.

What about those going through a "midlife crisis?" I had always heard this phase in life described as a time when a person would buy fast cars and indulge in bad and dangerous vices to an extreme. That may be true for some.  However, for many it is a time in life when they consider the impact they are having on others and the world in general. They are looking for more meaning in their life. Ultimately, giving back to society in the form of volunteering is a strong possibility.

I'm excited about the positive impact the baby boomer generation can make.  If you're a baby boomer, discover what you are passionate about.  Discover the skills and experiences you have developed throughout your life that can help others. Identify one or more charities that support a cause you feel strongly about. Contact them and volunteer your services. It doesn't matter if you only have one hour a week or 60 hours a week to donate.  You will make a difference and feel great about what you are doing at the same time.

To learn more about volunteering, go to http://www.everydaygiving.com and sign up the free special report "9 Questions to Consider Before Volunteering." Roger Carr is the founder of Everyday Giving.

Copyright © 2006 Roger B. Carr. All rights reserved

Give Back to Kids Going Back to School

Vacations, late nights, sleeping in, and hours of playing video games each day are about to end for many children. These events will soon be replaced with meeting new and old friends, a daily schedule, sports and homework. It happens every year for many kids when school starts. Some children look forward to the new school year. Others wish it would never happen.

August is National Back to School Month and a good time to think about how you might give back to make this the best school year ever for at least one student. Consider the following ways to help and then start thinking of other unique ways you can contribute:

• Donate clothing. If you have children in your house, now would be a great time to find clothes that no longer fit. Donate them to a family in need or local charity. If your kids attend a school that wears uniforms, consider providing the uniforms to the school where they can put them to the best use.
• Be a Tutor. My son is learning things at his age that I was not taught until later years. This is great for those that are able to grasp the concepts. However, there are some that need additional help outside the classroom. Consider being a volunteer tutor.
• Be a Teacher's Aide. Teachers have a significant responsibility. I am thankful for those that teach. They should not have to do it alone. Ask a school or teacher what you can do. It might be helping to organize a room. It might be to support the school library. It might even be to help plan a school event. There are many ways you can contribute your time and be a tremendous help.
• Donate School Supplies. The cost of school supplies can be a major burden on some families. Consider donating money for school supplies or purchasing school supplies that will help one or more of these wonderful families.
• Adopt a College Student. Many college students do not live at home. They do not have the benefit  of their own family near them everyday. For most, it is the first time they are away from home and their friends for a significant amount of time. Why don't you "adopt" a college student. Invite him or her to a home-cooked meal from time to time. Provide them a space they can get away from the campus.

The number of ways you can help students during the school year is unlimited. Seriously think about one or more ways you can make a difference in their lives this year. Don't stop at just thinking of a great idea. Make it a reality. The benefits you receive from doing it just might surprise you.

Copyright © 2006 Roger B. Carr. All rights reserved

More Reasons to Give in August 2006

Have you exhausted your brain trying to come up with new reasons to do something for someone?  There are always reasons to do something for someone (if you need an excuse). Take advantage of these upcoming observances for August 2006:

• National Back To School Month
• International Clown Week - 1-7 August 2006 - http://www.internationalclownweek.org
• International Friendship Day - 6 August 2006 - http://www.friendship.com.au/friendday.html
• International Youth Day - 12 August 2006 - http://www.un.org/esa/socdev/unyin/iyouthday.htm
• International Left-Handers Day - 13 August 2006 - http://www.lefthandersday.com
• Be an Angel Day - 22 August 2006
• Kiss and Make Up Day - 25 August 2006
• National Dog Day - 26 August 2006 - http://www.nationaldogday.com
• Women's Equality Day - 26 August 2006 - http://www.nwhp.org
• Be Kind to Humankind Week - 25-31 August 2006 - http://www.bekindweek.org

Youth Group Gives Hope for the Future

I was doing some research on my computer this morning and discovered a blog that got my interest. It was by a Christian youth group that traveled to Washington DC this past week. They made the trip to help others in a variety of ways while also finding opportunities to share their faith. You can check out the "One Step Closer '06" blog at http://onestepcloser06.blogspot.com. Make sure you submit a comment of encouragement to them while you are reading their posts.

There are many other youth groups just like this team that are unselfishly giving their time for others. It is great we have parents, teachers and leaders that teach the importance of giving and encourage our youth to put it into practice. It was clear to me that this group of young people didn't take the time to help because their parents made them go. They were enthusiastic to go and do what they could for others they didn't even know.

Doesn't that give you hope for the future? Doesn't it encourage you to find other ways you can give to others? It should!

Reasons to Give

Have you exhausted your brain trying to come up with new reasons to do something for someone? There are always reasons to do something for someone (if you need an excuse). Take advantage of these upcoming observances for the remainder of July. Some are serious and some are fun.

• World Population Day - 11 July 2006 - http://www.unfpa.org/wpd/index.htm
• National Ice Cream Day - 16 July 2006
• National Parents’ Day - 23 July - http://www.parentsday.com
• Cousins Day - 24 July 2006
• Father-In-Law Day - 30 July 2006

The Power of Giving

Azim Jamal and Harvey McKinnon are graciously giving away an electronic version of their book entitled, "The Power of Giving." Don't let the fact that they are giving this book away convince you that it is not valuable. This is a terrific book full of quality information and I would  encourage you to get a copy. Go to http://www.thepowerofgiving.org to get your copy right now. I initially read the electronic copy and was impressed. I have since purchased a hardcopy of the book that I have been using. Azim and Harvey's goal is to use the book to spread a "giving virus."

Interviews Available at Everyday Giving Radio

I am excited to announce an additional way to learn about giving back that we have started here at Everyday Giving. We have just launched Everyday Giving Radio! You will be able to listen to interviews of people making a difference. it is my hope that by listening to these interviews, you will:

• support the wonderful efforts being discussed
• learn that "everyday" people can do extraordinary things
• be challenged to come up with unique ideas for giving
• learn ways to overcome any challenges you might face
• be inspired to take action on your ideas for giving

We already have a couple of great interviews ready for you to listen to.

• One interview is with a terrific lady I met at Book Expo America this month. Cindy Katz has started a company called Plant A Tree USA. She has a very big goal to benefit the world that she is pursuing. She has already made significant progress towards meeting that goal.
• The second interview is with a young boy and his mother. Cole Hodges and Joan Crown are the co-founders of Donate Your Birthday. Cole has been donating his birthday since he was five years old. Cole and his mom have now set up a nonprofit organization to encourage others to do the same.

Check out the interviews at http://www.everydaygivingradio.com. Be sure to leave a comment on the website to let me know your thoughts on the interviews. I am also interested in knowing what you liked, what I can improve on, and topics you would like covered in future interviews.

Note: If you prefer to download the mp3 files of the interviews to your portable mp3 player, like I do, it will be easier to sign up for the Everyday Giving Radio podcast at http://feeds.feedburner.com/EverydayGivingRadio.

Gracious Giving Pod Started Today!

Check out the new Gracious Giving discussion board at http://pods.zaadz.com/gracious_giving. It is another great way for people to inspire each other to give and share ideas on ways to give. An increase in all forms of giving will result in a better world.

American Legion Visit

I had the privilege of attending an American Legion meeting last night. Specifically, I visited the American Legion Post #290 in Stafford, Virginia.  I was invited to speak about the Fredericksburg Arthritis Walk that is taking place on May 6. I was truly impressed with the amount of giving that is taking place by this particular organization.  I was aware they awarded scholarships and performed flag ceremonies at events. However, I found out last night that these items are only a very small part of the support this organization provides to the community and veterans. They're involved in providing sports facilities, supporting summer camps, sponsoring nonprofits, helping fellow veterans in crisis, and support to our troops to name just a few additional areas they give. It was also apparent they have a good time working together. I had a great time last night and made several new friends.  I would encourage everyone to contact their local American Legion organization and thank them for the support they're providing to make the world a better place. You can learn more at http://www.legion.org.

Are You In Too Much Of A Hurry?

I have done a significant amount of traveling recently. One of the things I observed on the road was how much of a hurry people seem to be in. They will walk right over people to get where they are going. The article at http://www.everydaygiving.com/ezine/11APR06.html captures one situation I experienced while traveling.

Many of you know that I am a volunteer with the Arthritis Foundation. The Arthritis Walk in my hometown of Fredericksburg, Virginia is going to be held on May 6. I am going to do something new this year to raise some funds for the walk. I am nearing completion of a new ebook entitled "Wake Up and Make a Difference." I am going to give a copy at no cost to every person that donates $25 or more to my Arthritis Walk team (Team Pain Killers) through the end of May. I will provide more details about the ebook in a later post. However, if you can' wait to donate, go to http://www.everydaygiving.com/arthritiswalk2006.

On a personal note, there has been a new addition to my family. No, we didn't just have a baby. However, we did adopt...a Bichon puppy. His name is Psycho. You can view pictures of him as a baby and now as a puppy. Go to http://www.everydaygiving.com/puppy.

Be a Valentine to Someone In Need

We think about giving to those in need during a few of the holidays. This is especially true for Thanksgiving Day and Christmas. Valentine's Day is traditionally a day to give to the ones closest to us. The article at http://www.everydaygiving.com/ezine/13FEB06.html discusses the possibility of extending our giving on Valentine's Day to include at least one more person.

Are You Achieving Your Goals?

by Roger Carr

Have you found yourself setting goals every year but eventually losing interest? Did you have every intention to make a difference by accomplishing your goals but then not following through? It is easy to get frustrated when this happens. Because of your frustration, it is less likely you will set any goals the next year.

Don't let that happen. You can make a difference in the world. Pursuing appropriate goals will help you do that. The problem may not have anything to do with setting goals. It may have everything to do with the goals you set. Ask yourself a question: Are your goals in alignment with your life purpose?

If not, it should be no surprise that you lose interest. You need to develop goals that are consistent with forwarding your purpose in life. When your goals are aligned with your passions, you are more likely to be persistent and accomplish them. Even through difficult times.

You don't know what your life purpose is? Start today to determine what it is. My life changed drastically when I realized my purpose. I know yours will as well. Until then, your goals will never have the meaning and excitement they will hold for you when they are aligned with your purpose.

There are many great books that can provide you a step-by-step method for realizing your life purpose. The books that helped me and I strongly recommend are:

* The Power To Be Your Best by Todd Duncan

* The Purpose-Driven Life by Rick Warren

Once you know your purpose, setting goals and prioritizing how you spend your time will be easier. You will also be surprised at how much you accomplish as your efforts and passions come together.

Get started today on making sure your goals and life purpose are in alignment. Your unique experiences and skills are needed to help make the world a better place.

© 2005 Roger B. Carr

To learn ways to give, go to http://www.everydaygiving.com to sign up for the free Everyday Giving ezine. Roger Carr is the founder of Everyday Giving. His life purpose is to help people help others.

Add Significance to Your New Year's Resolutions

by Roger Carr

The start of a new year is traditionally a time to reflect on the previous year. It is also a time to establish new resolutions. Popular resolutions include losing weight, getting more fit, getting out of debt, and making more money.

Giving to others tends to be forgotten when creating resolutions. However, their impact on you and others can be more significant than pursuing the more common resolutions.

What are some resolutions related to giving that you can consider as you pursue your own? Consider the following examples:

• Increase your financial giving to church and charities.
• Increase your time donated to important causes.
• Write and send an encouraging note at least weekly.
• Smile and greet the first people you meet every morning.
• Perform an act of kindness at least weekly.
• Search the house for unused, unneeded items and donate them for others to use.
• Increase the number of people you share your faith with.
• Donate your blood multiple times during the year.
• Determine your life purpose.

Your list needs to be unique to you. Use the above items only as a starting point in determining your own.

Be sure to set resolutions for yourself for the upcoming year that will help make a difference in the world. It will provide a special significance throughout the new year as you fulfill these important resolutions.

© 2005 Roger B. Carr

To learn more ways to give, go to http://www.everydaygiving.com/ezine.htm and sign up for the free Everyday Giving ezine. Be a philanthropist by giving everyday to others. Roger Carr is the founder of Everyday Giving. His life purpose is to help people help others.

7 Unique Ways To Make Someone Smile

by Roger Carr

Do you want to put a smile on someone's face?  Maybe make their day a little bit brighter?  It doesn't have to take much time or money on your part.  In fact, many things can be done as a part of your normal routine and cost little or nothing.  You won't know how many people are encouraged by your kindness because smiles are contagious. Try out one or more of these 7 ways today to put smiles on their faces.

1. Write an encouraging note to others that have encouraged you or that need encouragement. Handwritten notes that are given to encourage, not just for thanking someone for a gift, are rare. That makes handwritten notes even more special. Start a new practice of sitting down and writing an encouraging note on a regular basis. You just might start an epidemic!

2. Take a friend out to lunch or invite her to your home for a meal.  You will get to know each other even better than you do right now. If you feel like being more adventurous, throw a party for several of your friends and put smiles on a multitude of faces.

3. Give someone an inspirational book to read. You will feel good doing it, reading the book will change the person, and they will think of you every time they read it.

4. Ask a friend or relative if you can take care of their kid(s) for a day or evening. If you have been a parent, you know the value of being able to have a few hours of "adult time" without worrying about the children. Don't wait to be asked to baby-sit when it is required. Offer to do it at a time when the parent can do something fun and relaxing.

5. Deliver a meal to someone you know that is sick or having a rough time. We have all been sick and know the last thing you want to do is be out of bed. There are also times when life is tough and it is hard to do all of the daily chores. You can be a tremendous help by providing a meal that can be enjoyed.

6. Volunteer time to supporting your local church or charity.  Every minute you dedicate to a church or charity will cause many smiles.  You will put a smile on the face of each leader just for helping without being asked.  You will also be putting smiles on the faces of those that are being helped through the organization.

7. Thank everyone that supports you throughout the day.  The list of those that you come in contact with is endless.  Remember family and friends, secretaries, co-workers, teachers, Sunday school teachers, pastors, store employees, janitors, gas station attendants, those that deliver your mail and newspaper, and servers at restaurants.

I know this is a list of 7 ways to put a smile on someone's face, but there is one more way that can't be ignored. Reveal a genuine smile to everyone you meet. You will experience how easy it is to get others to smile!

© 2005 Roger B. Carr

To learn more ways to give, sign up for the free Everyday Giving ezine at http://www.everydaygiving.com/ezine.htm.

What Can You Do When Disaster Strikes Somewhere Else?

October 22, 2005 is Make A Difference Day. I encourage you to make a special effort to plan and do something on that day that will make a difference. Last year 3 million people volunteered their time during this special day to make their community a better place. To find out more about Make A Difference Day, learn about projects already planned in your area, get ideas for new projects, and register your efforts go to http://www.makeadifferenceday.com.

One area you can make a difference, no matter where you are located, is to help those affected by a tragedy. Many people have lost their health, jobs, homes, precious belongings, pets, friends and family due to the natural disasters that have recently hit several parts of the world. There are probably other tragedies in your own community not reported internationally in the news but just as devastating to those touched by them. One of my mentors challenged me to find at least two ways I should be helping in the recent disasters and then continue to help. Use the article "What Can You Do When Disaster Strikes Somewhere Else?" at http://www.everydaygiving.com/ezine/10OCT05.html to start finding ways you can help someone suffering from a tragedy as well.

Little Things Do Make A Difference

There are many ways we can have a positive influence on others. Many of those ways that have the strongest impact do not take a significant amount of time and money. I have been influenced by people that cared about me. I am sure they didn't know the impact they would have on me at the time.

Read about my experiences in the article at http://www.everydaygiving.com/ezine/11AUG05.html. It may give you some ideas on things you could be doing to make this a better world each day.

Giving Can Overcome Language Differences

One of the ways we can give is to help others. With a little patience we can give our help to those from other countries.

This was proven to me in a recent trip I took overseas. Read about my experience in the article at http://www.everydaygiving.com/ezine/13JUL05.html. I have included in the article a couple of the photos I took while on my trip in Germany. It is my way of sharing a little bit of my trip with you.

When I arrived back from my trip, I noticed a card with pictures on a friend's desk. It was a card that soldiers can use to communicate critical things between coalition partners when they don't speak the same language and there is no time or abiliity to get an interpreter. It allows you to point to pictures to communicate. I am sure a card like that exists for basic travel purposes as well. If you are aware of such a card, please let me know.